Sunday, 18 September 2016

I'm Getting To 40 Yet No Husband - Worried Woman Cries Out


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Hi JTC Media Readers,
I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m
not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.

My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 28, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.


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  39. You all have made good points. But my own thinking it's possible she is married to an unknown spirit(ancestral forces) which stands as a force between her and any man in the physical. She should also go for deliverance. May the Lord's will be done in her life.

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  40. You all have made good points. But my own thinking it's possible she is married to an unknown spirit(ancestral forces) which stands as a force between her and any man in the physical. She should also go for deliverance. May the Lord's will be done in her life.

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    Ignore people saying you should call them or they will marry you. But as someone advice, you can change environment, or make friends outside your neighborhood, just don't give up on God. I pray with you sister.

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  51. Salam Alaikum Sis , quite sorry for the pains you are going thru .The truth of the matter is have u tried seeing an Ustazh who deals in Jinn exorcism to examine u through the recitation of Ruqqayatul Quraniyyah? If you haven't then u have to visit one, I am not saying u are being attacked by jinn but just for pure examination , once an ulama reads on u ,if it is jinn disturbing you, the jinn will speak , just go to any Masjid in ur area that you know are strictly following the doctrines of the Quran n Hadith as you know we have so many Muslim sects in Nigeria who are introducing new things into Islam, which is totally wrong. So be careful whom you visit.




    Note: after examing you , n nothing shows jinn disturbing you, he will give u some prayers to be doing till the right man comes.

    All u need do is relocate to another place, join any muslim sisters forum ,spoil urself silly in a decent way, go to the beach, the cinema, shopping mall etc u can get hook up with someone paraventurely n try as much as possible to stay away from sin ,I'm not saying you are a sinner but sometimes the sins we commit deprives us of glad tidings, make peace with people who felt you have offended them , take away pride, jealousy, hypocrisy any bad Virtues from ur heart, no man is perfect except God.

    I want you to know that when your time comes nothing can stop you, just trust in Allah , start waking up for tahajjud every night n do sadaqah weekly , fast voluntarily mondays n Thursdays weekly with the intention of a righteous husband,... Once you can abide by my advice. In the next couple of 3- 6 months you will have a nice story to tell, do not ever think Allah has forsaken you. Believ it is what is written in Qadar.


    Be careful of those men dropping their numbers ,some have genuine intentions n others are wolf in sheep's clothing.
    So ur best bet is before u call any of them do istikhara for Allah to guide u , HE will reveal those with good intentions.


    My prayers are with you.. Remember that there is always a silver lining in every storm.Ma salam

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  71. Muhammad Husain3 August 2016 at 23:35

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  74. Salamun Aleikum sister. The only way to right a wrong is to do the right thing. In my best opinion I might not be a Jinn, infact a Jinn is not as destructive as our own wrong morals and negative attitude.
    Some of our girls treat men with scorn, they measure the worth of a man by the kind of car and life style he lives. Men come in droves but our young girls turn them down. Some of them go as much as collecting d poor guys hard earned money and drop them off as soon as another sophisticated man comes around, breaking a man's heart. Men do that to women also- it's a two way thing.
    But what we fail to realise is that some people are so close to God that when u hurt them u hurt God. Some are nt forgiving and can go extra miles to get vengeance.
    My sincere advice is for you to look to ur past and knw whr u have erred and seek for forgiveness.
    You deserve to settle down cos ur pretty. U said u had ur own house at the age of 28. Did u inherit it or u built it? Our earnings can also distant us from God.
    I wish u luck and pray for a good husband for u.
    Pls I need ur prayers from all of u too cos am also single will be 31 dis year. Wanted to marry at 28 but d economy of the country won't let. Allah's time is always the best I believe

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  84. Walk with God, you are a winner.

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